Beauty is easily captured by the naked eye, but what’s inside is only shown through time. The physical appearance is what grabs our attention, but it’s the inner person that keeps us around. Who is this person really? What are they really about? After reading this article, you’ll find that this is the best dating advice you’ll ever receive.
Don’t allow the outer part to distract you from what is really going on inside. In order to know someone, you must start from the inside out. The definition of self is exerted through the heart and only the heart, determines the quality of that person. Keep your ears open a little longer than your mouth. Meaning, listen!
Listen to what this person has to say about their family. How is their relationship with their parents? Do they get along? Do they respect their parents and everyone else that are around them? Please don’t think for one second that someone will respect you more than they respect their loved ones. I always say, “If you don’t disrespect your mom, what makes me think that you’ll respect me?”
Someone that has respect knows that respect is given to everyone; not just a few chosen ones. My dad always tells me that one way to discover a woman is by observing her mother because “the apple never falls too far from the tree.” “She is always the present, whereas, the mom depicts the future,” he says.
The past is also always important. Now I know we all hate hearing the tales about the ex boyfriend/girlfriend, but in reality, it can help us pin point past problems, preventing them from becoming our present. How many times do we hear the bashing of the exes. So many negative things are said that we begin to dislike someone we don’t’ even know. Ever wondered what that person could’ve done to contribute to any of the problems they stated?
We always look to hear the positive in the ones we meet, but why not the negative? Both of them are essential in order for a final decision to be made. No one is perfect so there’s no way someone could go through a past relationship without having done anything wrong. If that is the case, run while you’re ahead because if not, it’ll catch up with you later. Trust me!